Ghanaian marriage counsellor Rev. Dr. Charlotte Oduro has sparked fresh debate on relationships after advising married women not to direct their anger toward so-called “sidechicks,” arguing that the real issue often lies within the marriage itself.
Speaking in a widely circulated discussion on relationships, the outspoken counsellor suggested that wives who discover their husbands are involved with other women should focus on addressing the core issues in their marriage rather than confronting the other woman.
“Leave the Sidechicks Alone”
According to Charlotte Oduro, confronting or attacking a sidechick rarely solves the underlying problem in a marriage. Instead, she believes married women should concentrate on resolving issues with their husbands.
“Leave the sidechicks alone,” she reportedly advised, adding that directing anger at the third party often distracts from the deeper marital challenges couples must address.
Her comments have generated significant reactions on social media, with many users debating whether blame should fall on the husband, the other woman, or both.
Ongoing Controversy With Mzbel
The relationship counsellor has recently been at the center of controversy involving Ghanaian musician Mzbel. The singer has reportedly threatened legal action against Oduro following claims related to her son’s alleged school dropout.
The dispute has intensified public scrutiny around Oduro’s public commentary on relationships and family matters, fueling broader discussions online about the role of marriage counsellors in addressing sensitive personal issues.
Mzbel, whose real name is Belinda Nana Ekua Amoah, has previously criticized the counsellor and questioned her credibility following issues surrounding Oduro’s own marriage and public statements. (Yen.com.gh – Ghana news.)
Debate on Responsibility in Relationships
Oduro’s latest remarks have reignited a long-standing debate about responsibility in cases of infidelity. While some people argue that the “sidechick” knowingly interferes in marriages, others insist that the married partner should bear the primary responsibility.
The counsellor’s stance reflects a perspective shared by some relationship experts who believe that marital problems should be addressed between spouses rather than external parties.
As discussions continue online, the comments highlight the evolving conversation around marriage, accountability, and gender expectations in modern relationships.
Why This Story Matters
The controversy illustrates how public discussions about relationships in Ghana often extend beyond personal advice into broader cultural debates about fidelity, gender roles, and accountability in marriage. Statements by influential counsellors like Charlotte Oduro can quickly spark nationwide conversations about how couples handle conflict and infidelity.
Read more about the ongoing controversy here: Mzbel vows action against Charlotte Oduro over son’s alleged school dropout.
